This is simply a blog to let off some steam that has built up on me over this past week.
I acknowledge that if this is the only bad client I see this week, or more, than its really nothing to complain about in the grand scheme of things. He never assaulted me in any way, robbed me, threatened me or anything else nasty like. Being rude is not a crime, I fully acknowledge, but I also see the very slippery slope he’s on and I’m quite aware that its right here where the real problems begin sooner or later. Thus, as an independent escort, I always reserve the right to profile all my clients and act solely on my gut alone.
The minute this guy (who I’ll call Steve) strolled through my door, I knew he was going to be a difficult client. Understand, I’m no idiot, and I will have each client sized up before their ass even touches my living room sofa, have no doubt. But I’m silent and polite about it all naturally.
The first offense he committed was strolling right on through my porch area, into my kitchen then headed straight into my den, without being invited past the hallway before proper introductions/greetings were exchanged, and all while still wearing his outdoor shoes. That’s incredibly rude by any cultures standards. If a person has any common decency they will remove their shoes before walking through another persons house. Not doing so indicates their low opinion of their host. While I will openly admit that I presented this single unit private condo as an incall location, and not my own home, its still a well maintained space that I take pride in and should be respected as such.
His second mistake occurred when he made my request for washing up more awkward then necessary. As I usually do, I politely directed him towards the bathroom. Saying that he’s welcome to shower before or after, but at least its always nice to wash your face and hands after coming in from outside. Its a very polite yet direct request to please wash yourself before placing your strange hands inside me. But he did not move a single muscle. Basically I had to tell him to wash his hands at the very least before being intimate with me.
As the date progressed we ended up in the bedroom and I asked him if he would like a BJ. He said he would, of course, but the look on his face was extremely telling when I pulled out the condom. He whined and complained when I told him that I practiced safe oral only. Wah, wah, wah, cry baby. I’m not going to change my mind no matter how loud you whine...
I understand that people will ask questions regarding where their boundaries lie, I have no problem when someone asks me a question to be clear where individual boundaries exist, I actually appreciate that, but once that info is known - any form of pressure, mockery or nagging is totally unacceptable. I offer CBJ only, if you don’t like it leave, its that simple. Its rude to pressure a girl to take the condom off, even if its ‘just for oral’. You asked, she said no, end of story. Don’t be an asshole. That’s offense #3.
But it gets even more offensive when he asked me the following, ‘Where should he expect to cum with this condom in the way?’ I couldn’t believe he just asked that question. Really?? Oh, I expect you to cum in the condom like everyone else usually does. But he wasn’t going to be satisfied with that. He wanted a facial. I straight out refused. I don’t toy with clients at all. I tell them straight up what’s cool and not. I at least give them that respect. But he had no respect for the boundaries of prostitutes obviously. He kept pushing for that fucking facial cum shot despite my clear and straight refusal.
It wasn’t enough that I invited him into my private condo, offered him a drink, a place to wash, willingly give him a damn fine BJ (if I do say so myself, I am a pro after all) and then fuck him in several different positions of his choosing, all with a smile on my face. He continued to pester me, so I explained how it would ruin my make up and mess up my hair which I really didn’t appreciate - but still he whined like a bitch - so then I said that I wasn’t comfortable risking getting any of his semen in my eyes, ears or nose due to the potential health risks associated. I was incredibly offended that I had to even say that out loud to his face, when in this day and age we all know the risks associated with certain behaviours. The fact that he felt he had any right to ask that of me pissed me off big time, especially after I told him no, not once, but several times. To appease him I took the shot safely on my chest.
We’re up to number four now - the counts getting too high for my liking.
Now after all that you’d think he’d let me rinse up first (since I had all his cum on my chest mind you), but instead he insists that he uses the bathroom first because he likes privacy when he pees. Wow. He just reached offense #5. What a jerk. That will be the first and last time I will ever see him.
Many people think that working as a prostitute is a degrading job, but its not. Except when a client like him knocks on my door. I take pride in my work and am not ashamed of what I do, and I refuse to be disrespected by anybody. I’ll do many wild and wonderful things but only if you treat me right and respect my boundaries. I’m a lady and a whore. That rude dude needs to learn some manners, regardless of who he’s dealing with.
Don’t worry, Steve is not my typical client. I’m very appreciative for all the awesome regular clients I have which make my work so very much fun - 99% of the time. If all the clients were like Steve I wouldn’t be in this industry. Thankfully, most are really cool guys I actually have a good rapport with. Not creeps at all. So stay cool guys.
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